What is One Thing You Desire to Change?

Posted by on Mar 1, 2018 in Action Steps, Change

Change starts in our mind. What we think determines how we feel and how we feel influences how we act. The uncertainty of how to implement and accomplish that one desire  in our life holds us back and every day we desire to live differently.  We meander through the days of procrastination failing to implement change. If only it would happen magically with no effort on our part. God does not work that way. What do you desire to change? Change starts in your mind and that one thing you need to change lingers in your mind and refuses to go away. What is it? 1. Attitude 2. Weight – lose those extra pounds. 3. Develop the habit of a daily devotional and prayer time. 4. Set the alarm and start the day earlier to prevent frustration of being late. 5. Be kinder to those around you. 6. Spend more time with family. 7. Eat at home instead of eating out four or five times a week. 8. Be more conservative in your spending habits. 9. Plan family getaways several times a year. 10. Attend church on a regular basis. 11. Volunteer at your church or school. 12. Be available for dates with your spouse. 13. Plan meals to make family time a pleasant experience. 14. Take a class. 15. Join a gym. 16. Turn the television off and spend the evening with your family. 17. Find a new job. 18. Discover a new hobby. 19. Learn to play an instrument. 20. Enroll in a book club. Are you ready to take the first step and move forward? The choice is yours. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things; Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me – put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:6-8 NIN In the hope of Christ, Brenda Luther thirteenonecoaching.com...

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Change…

Posted by on Jul 13, 2015 in Personal Growth Tips, Spiritual Help

“How are you sabotaging your own progress?” This is the question our pastor asked today. The following is things I thought about as I reflected back on the sermon. I don’t know about you but I think about and desire to make changes in my life. Often that is  true, “I think” but fail to implement changes. Doubts come and fill my mind with all the reasons why it is impossible for me to make changes and fear of the unknown intrudes on my thought process. Some changes I can easily make but others are not quite so easy. A few reasons we use to justify why we refuse to change… 1.  Fear of __________? 2.  What would people say? 3.  What if I fail? 4.  Can I financially afford to take that step at this time? 5.  Who would be willing to give me a chance to start that new career? 6.  How would change affect my spouse, family, children, and friends? 7.  Do I have the desire and will power to change? 8.  How do I implement change into my current life style? 9.  Is anyone willing to help me? 10. Where do I begin? 11. What holds me back from implementing change in my life? 12. Can I accomplish change and stick to it? 13. Am I willing and do I want change in my life or is change something to mull over from time to time and dream about? The issues and difficulties that we face in life and changes we know we need to make, but refuse to make for various reasons all go back to our spiritual life. They are spiritual issues. Is Jesus first and foremost the #1 person we run to and rely on when the difficulties of life drag us down? Often instead of running to the One who has all the answers and loves us more than anyone else and is our Helper we run to a friend or anyone who will listen. We spend time discussing our problems but not seeking a solution. We run from change that we know we need to make and settle for a life of the status quo and experience feelings of loss within our heart. We are missing the spiritual blessings that God has for us when we refuse to make the necessary changes as God calls us to a higher calling. What is your biggest obstacle in making changes that will benefit you spiritually?  Is it that you are unwilling to give up a habit you know is detrimental to your family, your health, your mental stability, your witness for Christ, or your career? Is it a hobby that consumes you and takes too much time away from your spouse and your children or does not allow you time to serve and worship Christ? Is it your career that consumes your time...

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